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哈佛博士米歇尔·奥巴马:好父母，不做孩子的“朋友”

你为什么要孩子?

Why do you want to have a baby

是因孤独想要陪伴

do you want to have a baby because you're lonely

那将会是

 that's gonna be

一团糟的局面

A messy kind of situation

养育子女是件困难的事

parenting is a hard thing

我们的母亲

Our mother for sure

她总是说我养育的不是孩子

She always said I'm not raising babies

而是未来的成年人

I'm raising adults

如果你是一位家长

 and if you're a parent

你担心的是

and you're worried about

你的孩子是否喜欢你

 whether your kid likes you

我向你保证

I guarantee you

你绝对搞砸了

you are screwing them up

因为养育孩子的很大一部分意味着

right because so much of means that

你必须忍受他们

you have to suffer through them

咬牙切齿地说着

gritting under their teeth of

哦我恨你

oh i hate you

妈妈，你让我气疯了

oh mom you make me so mad

你有那些感觉是可以的

you can have those feelings you know

因为我培养你

because I am not

不是 为了让你做我的朋友

raising you to be my friend

我要培养你做成年人

I'm raising you to be a human

负责任的成年人

a responsible adult in the world