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兰多·布鲁姆谈亲密关系：爱的前提是安全感！

有安全感

Feeling Safe

被看见

Seen

和被在乎

And Celebrated

我想要安全感

I Want To Feel Safe

在我的感情中

In Terms Of My Relationship 

首先是与我自身的关系

So With Self First Right

我会看着镜子问自己

So If i Look In The Mirror I Feel Safe

我获得安全感了吗?

Do I Feel Safe With You Today

我被你看见了吗

Do I Feel Seen By You

我是否被在乎了

And Do l Feel Celebrated Right

同理也适用于我身边的人

But Really It's For My The People In My Life

我和这个人在一起有没有安全感

Like Do l Feel Safe With This Person

我有没有被这个人看见

Do I Feel Seen By This Person

我是否被重视了

And Am I Feeling Celebrated

并且我是否能

And Can l Do

回馈相同的安全感给对方

That For Them

这都是相互的

Obviously It's a Mirror

如果我有这些感觉

So If I'm Feeling That Way

那说明一切都在正轨

Then You Good It Is a Green Light

但如果不是

And If I'm Not Then I'm Gonna Just

我会先后退一点

Step Back

先停下来

Take Pause

直到我能够感受到安全感

Until I Can Feel That Way

但如果事与愿违

And If I Can't Feel That Way

那就是生活和宇宙

Life In The Universe Will

想带领我们走向不同的人生轨迹

Take Us On Different Trajectories