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不要把14岁的孩子太当回事

Don’t take the 14 year old too seriously

孩子到了14岁

The child is 14 years old

他就会集中爆发这些情绪

He will focus on these emotions

最爱干的就是唱反调

The most favorite thing to do is to sing the opposite

不知道你有没有这种感觉？

I don’t know if you have this feeling ?

你让他喝水，他说不渴

You let him drink water, he said not thirsty

你让他吃饭，他说不饿

You let him eat, he said not hungry.

你让他上床睡觉,他非得熬到半夜。

You let him go to bed, he had to stay up until midnight.

那你就觉得这孩子太叛逆了

Then you think the child is too rebellious

教育孩子的这个过程当中

In this process of educating a child

就是不断退出和告别的一个过程

it is a process of constant withdrawal and farewell constant withdrawal and farewell

如果父母不理解他

And if the parents don't understand him and

开始烦他

begin to annoy him

那他这个力量就会积起来

then this power of his will build up

他就会去镇压自己

And he will go and suppress himself

会出现叛逆躺平厌学这些现象

there will be rebellion lying flat anorexia

所以不要太当回事

so do not take it too seriously

14岁这一阶段的孩子

14 years of age this stage of the child

是整个人最严重的

Is the most serious of the whole person

一个人格转折期

a personality transition period

如果这个能量能出去

if this energy can go out

才会感觉到被父母给认同了

only to feel recognized by the parents

他就变成了有生命力的开朗的孩子

He became a vitality of the cheerful child